LABOUR COURT SPOTLIGHT: When a Romance at Work Ends — and Becomes Grounds for Dismissal
- Alan van der Merwe
- Jun 19
- 3 min read
Updated: Oct 16
Mediclinic Nelspruit v Charles Thamsanq Shiba: A Case Study
📍 Mediclinic Nelspruit v Charles Thamsanqa Shiba (JR1899/21) – Labour Court Judgment, 9 June 2025
In a recent judgement that highlights professionalism and personal conduct in the workplace, the Labour Court was asked to decide if persistent, unwanted communication with a former partner justifies dismissal. This was the case even in the absence of physical harassment.
The Case Overview
Here's what happened:
🔹 Mr. Shiba, a Human Resources Business Partner at Mediclinic Nelspruit, was in a romantic relationship with a co-worker. Unfortunately, the relationship ended in late 2020.
🔹 After the breakup, the employer instructed Mr. Shiba in writing to cease all personal communication with his former partner. Despite these clear directives, he ignored them. He continued to call, message, and even visit her residence.
🔹 Given this behavior, Mediclinic decided to dismiss him after a thorough disciplinary process. Mr. Shiba challenged the dismissal at the CCMA and emerged victorious. The Commissioner ordered his reinstatement, stating that his conduct did not warrant such a drastic measure.
🔹 Mediclinic, feeling aggrieved by the outcome, took the matter to the Labour Court on review. They argued that the CCMA award was unreasonable considering the persistent boundary-crossing, even after multiple warnings.
The Labour Court Ruling
⚖️ On 9 June 2025, Acting Judge Zwane provided a detailed analysis of the facts and legal principles involved. Although the final decision is still pending, this case brings forth critical issues regarding:
➡️ The limits of personal freedom in the workplace
➡️ Whether ignoring an employer’s warnings constitutes misconduct
➡️ How far an employer must go before taking decisive action against unwanted behavior between co-workers.
Key Takeaways
The Labour Court's ruling emphasizes a crucial theme in today’s labour relations: the necessity of respecting personal boundaries and adhering to employer directives — particularly in roles with authority, such as Human Resources.
This situation serves as a reminder of the fine line between personal relationships and professional decorum. The implications of this decision will likely influence how similar misconduct is addressed in future legal disputes.
Broader Implications for Workplace Conduct
The landscape of workplace relationships continues to evolve. More employees are forming personal connections at work, which can sometimes lead to complications. The case of Mr. Shiba illustrates the potential repercussions when boundaries are crossed.
Employers must balance the need for professional conduct with employees' rights to personal relationships. However, when one party disregards clear boundaries, it can lead to significant consequences.
A Cautionary Tale
This case serves as a cautionary tale for employees navigating relationships in the workplace. While personal relationships can be beneficial, they may also blur professional lines. It's vital for employees to understand the potential for conflict and adhere to workplace policies.
Conclusion: The Importance of Compliance
Ultimately, the decision the Labour Court renders will likely set important precedents for handling similar cases in the future. Regardless of the outcome, the emphasis on compliance with workplace policies cannot be overstated.
Respect for personal boundaries must be upheld. An employee’s ability to navigate personal relationships without disruptive behavior is key to maintaining a healthy workplace environment.
📌 Watch this space. This ongoing legal precedent in South African labour law sheds light on crucial issues regarding personal conduct at work.
👨⚖️ Advocate A.R. van der Merwe💼 Trust Account Advocate | Employment & Commercial Law




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